A common sight on the streets of cities like Bangkok and Pataya is portrayed from the eyes of the girl. 
Shy / Photo: a century visions
When cruising the streets of any hectic Asian city you will see them. You exercise volition judge them. You will either respect them and it or you will not.
You power understand them behave hand in ability. Maybe he will have an arm around her. Maybe she will cling to him similar to grant that there’sitting no day tomorrow. You will see her dedication to him. And as luck may have it you will see how plenteous he enjoys the attention of a young feisty girl.
It’s aggregate about the love between two folks. A young Asian girl and each old grey man that has seen better days.
Can you call this love?
It altogether depends forward the definition of the word “loveâ€. There are many different levels of love and many ways of feeling this “love.â€
More or not so much any poor Asian girl knows that if she lands a Westerner it means security. She needs it and she wants it. Her family is dependent on it and they understand if there’s in no degree cash on the board there’s no food in the belly.
Another Perspective
Through her eyes: picture a family of eight and where the youngest sister recently returned abode with a new born baby, all living in a one room let fall. A hole in the floor functions as a toilet and a bucket provides a cold shower. The kitchen is the fire they start outside their wooden entrance and barely door.
You get desperate. You need money. You need security and you do not care how. Desperation for survival eats its way inside you.
You induce desperate. You need money. You need security and you end not care how. Desperation for survival eats its way inside you.
Seeing the elderly Westerners who you know are looking for a cheerful time, you start getting ready. Throw on your nicest piece of clothing and anything soever make-up you are lucky enough to have and out you go. The bars, the streets, the restaurants even the corner of any high-road.
When people look at you, they know. They conceive their thoughts about you and you feel humiliated, cheap and scared. But that which you are most scared of is not being ingenious to feed your sister’s baby and your family.
A man comes up to you and starts a conversation. You feel exposed to risk about which to say. You want to judge the upright thing. You want him to like you, to figure you in, to fall in love with you. To save you.
The Dream
It happens, the greatest lifeless substance you always dreamt of happens. You pinch yourself making sure it’s substantial, that in this moment, in this time, in this city. It’s real!
Looking back / Photo: i see you
He feeds you, takes you to nice up beat restaurants, you hold his hand. You sleep through him and he treats you well. He’s a good man. An old man moreover a sincere workman. You get to know more about him and him about you. He tells you he’s lonely and lives in a cold country on the other side of the world.
You cling to him; you feel “love†as antidote to him. You tell him you “take pleasure†him and after a as long as he says “okay.â€
Your family starts to eat better; the baby is safe and healthy. He gives you money twice a month to help you and your family lead a better life.
Then he’s gone, back to his home country and your whole world falls apart. What now? The desperation you felt before meeting this wonder of a man starts burning inside of you again.
Then he calls: “Let’session go open a bank account and I will transfer the money to you while substance homeâ€. You feel relieved. You feel calm and most grateful to this God of a man.
A Reason To Live
Is this be in love with? The answer would be yes and no.
She loves him of the fact that he helps her. We, the ones born and raised in a country where hunger is not an issue; far away from the world of poverty. We don’t see things the same way.
What we care about is having the right car, the reduce the heat of shoes, the modern brands, the fashionable clothes, and the only desperation you feel is being cool enough join the community of the ridiculous materialistic world you live in.
He loves her too. She gives him a reason to live, equitable at home. He calls her, tells her what he’session been doing and how his lateral of the world treats him. They share stories, thoughts, smiles, and maybe even secrets.
They translate have a relationship; they are together as a couple. Their exist in a world of their own.
What would you think if your father began dating this girl?
What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comments!
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